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TOPIC: My wife does not like sex

Gio

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Date: Fri Oct 10 10:20 2008

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As I talk to men and women about why they are online, I find a common issue that they are willing to discuss. The most common subject is My wife does not like sex muchThere are more men online than women, looking for some form of sexual satisfaction.Most of these men are married and want something more.Bedrooms get stale without a fresh coat of paint and new sheets. Everyone gets that rush with new experiences, isnt that why some go high diving? It is a pleasure that sweeps us up and goes through our whole being. "I have had men talk dirty to me, turn me on with just words, have me fantasize about them, yet they would not talk to their wives in the same way." One woman explains. Why turn to someone else online with a username and a URL for an address. The communication is not there and the fires are burning low. A woman likes foreplay, something new and most of all are you listening to know her man "thinks she is beautiful". After years of marriage, you slide into the same routine, same positions and if a woman does not feel attractive there is no point trying to even suggest foreplay.Well, that is one view, and one that rings true for most, but I have another to share.Women have less courage to explore sexuality. Simple enough, sex is a chore or duty instead of a pleasure. Without the want, need, desire of discovery of her own sexual pleasures, she has sex to shut her man up! (for some not all, you would be surprised)Before I had my children, I was up for sex every night, I felt sexy, wanted and free to let myself enjoy it. Once I gave birth, the hormones went wild, the body was not the same and the lack of sleep, sex was not anywhere near my mind or body. Sex came once in awhile, here and there. Not top priority. You get into that flow of your life and sometimes it never ends.When my children got a little older and I had more time, I discovered my sexuality. Men are selfish lovers, even when they are pleasing women. In letting myself be selfish in this way, take control of my wants and desires, I enjoyed sex, wanted it and did so for myself. When I please my husband, I do it to please myself. Taking in moments and using them to my advantage, I am in control of my pleasure. This makes for a great sexual experience. With the power to please myself. Maybe the wife does like sex, but women are more complicated and life gets in the way. Will a husband know what to say or how to act to get her back on track? __________________ Head webmistress Laced leather

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