I will get to the point quickly so you can busy. When you buy fruit do you wash it before you eat it, really? It has been sitting on a shelf in the stale air, people touching it all day. Well just shower before sex, and mostly if you want oral sex, make sure you smell good. Reality people! A lot more goes on down there during a day than just sitting fresh waiting for sexual moments, well I am sure you know what I mean. Without the self-consciousness and doubting just be aware. My biggest thing is communication; no one can read your mind, although body language and some moaning can really signal how much you are enjoying, talk about it! Yes, I realize with a new partner this is very touchy and somewhat difficult to just blurt out You are doing it wrong But you are living in a moment here and this could be fantastic, so lets make it an amazing moment.
Tips (found some good ones and some of my own to share)
*My favouritelet your moans do the talking, if they hit a spot, do a little something you especially like, let them know with a heightened moan, hell, squeak if you want to.
*For both sexes, use your tongue, experiment with your tongue in many places, different pressures, and different strokes. Your tongue holds lubrication, heat, wetness and taste.
*Get the hands to help, whether you use your own or your partners, with strokes and mouth.oh baby!
*Use all parts of our tongue, tip, flat, and underside; provide different strokes, movements and variations.
*Let you mouth bring even more to the experience, use your lips, tongue, teeth and even your breath, kissing, sucking.
*Do what is comfortable to you, respond to your partners responses and always enjoy, if one is not enjoying there is something wrong and the problem needs to be looked after.
All right I will stop nagging at you about talking to your lover, but we all experience the good, the bad and ugly. I just believe we can skip to the amazing!